Midas, just so you know, Carlo isn't a moderator and does not have banning power. He's been very respectful to everyone so far, unlike this new poster who immediately jumped on him. Nobody has been banned to this point, but this thread isn't exactly what I would call professional. Do you disagree?
I'm not sure why you would be offended by a site that allows members to provide feedback to other members through "reputation" and report bad posts to site administrators. I also don't see why you feel like you were "being schooled on etiquet your first post here", since you weren't even involved in this thread until now.
**edit** I see your earlier post now about lending hope leads, my apologies. I wasn't referring to that post in any way - just the name calling by the other poster. **
The rules were laid down because those involved in this thread needed to know, quite obviously. If you don't share the ideal of having a professional community as opposed to a kindergarten class, then by all means don't stick around. This is the site for grown ups
For the record, I haven't seen anything but professionalism from you so I'm not sure why this wrinkled your feathers so much.